friends.

sure..we've all heard that they come and go..and the ones that leave weren't you real friends in the first place..i'm starting to beg to differ on that note...as in any relationship,people get tired.whether it be constant arguing,lying,or just flat mistrust.all of those can damage a healthy friendship.two quick examples..i had two girl bestfriends..we'd been through it all,the nights where they'd call me sad about their respective relationships and the times where i'd call them for advice.we all needed each other.a helping hand,lent shoulder,or just a good laugh.you could count on us being there for one another.but i will say this with no hesitation,having a girlfriend is the end to all bestfriendship between a girl & a boy.because instead of they girl bf being the one he was on the phone with late at night,it's now his girlfriend who takes that space.in return without intention,leaving the girl alone.so with a friendship on the edge,arguements about the slightest of things erupt into feuds for days,maybe weeks.then the breaking point,some situation,that kills that friendship.and instead of ever attempting to repair again,you count your losses and lessons learned.